Sunday, September 23, 2007
having dao-ed people the last few days, guess it's time for a quick reflection.
you know the feeling where you feel, "i'm there for them, but they're not there for me."
it hurts and pisses you off at the same time. so naturally you don't want to lash out at them, so you opted to dao them. now, this isn't a good idea.
but then, it sort of made me recollect this phrase (i've mentioned it in the 2nd previous post):
sometimes it's not a question of how friend they are to you, but how friend
you are to them.
the owner of these words sort of shook me up and comforted me with the words. it's true, i guess. to quote the person, friends just let it go. don't expect things from people. in other words, selflessness.
then there's the question of how selfless you can get. and again, the answer is, don't question, just do it. sure, there'll be instances where you feel that you're too selfless for your own comfort. but then again, what can you do about it?
nice to know that when you're throwing sarcasm at others, you don't get the sarcasm obviously aimed at you.
4:21 pm
