Monday, July 09, 2007
i came across an interesting, and rather useful, thread on Flowerpod Community forum titled
How You Know You Like Him? ok, it sounds a rather shallow topic, but the answers given are worth thinking about. here are some excerpts:
by
sweetlen: when i miss him if i dont see him, when he becomes a part of my life, my daily doings.. when i noe he will be interested in wad i like, and we hav common interests. and dat he treats me rightfully.
by
spoiltbabe: a relationship is hard to survive without chemistry. Some guys you can juz click and talk anything under the sun. But some guys you will feel concieous and keep worrying if you will say anthing wrong and end up say nothing.
by
iveleen: For me, there was no fireworks, no butterflies in the stomach, no hearts racing, nothing dramatic. He smiled at me one day, and I was suddenly washed over with this feeling of familiarity, like I've known this person forever and he felt like a part of me that I never knew was missing, that came back.
i like this one by
purple_pearl:
The smallest thing he did for u makes u smile.
When he is sad, u feel it with it or even worse.
You miss him if you can't see him.
You look forward to his sms,online msgs and calls.
You take the initative to do things for him.
If he doesn't bother abt you, u will feel the heartache and u tear.
no matter wad others say abt him, he is perfect in ur eyes.
Love is to see an imperfect person perfect.
keikogal suggests:
yes, its obvious that you can tell yourself that you like a guy if:
1. you constantly think & miss him at any time of the day
2. you worry when he's not home yet or how he is when its already 1am plus etc.
3. you look forward to every sms or meeting him eagerly
4. you can't help but not want to shower him with your care, concern & love
5. your heart aches when he's not around
6. your heart races or flutters whenever you see or are with him
7. you can't help but gaze into his eyes occassionally for a few seconds
Angelic Devil adds on:
I will think of him everyday whether if I'm with him or not.
I will see him not as an imperfect person but as who he is.
I will want to see him fall to sleep every night.
I will give him up if I cant give him the happiness he want.
I will wait for him and not pressuring him to be with me.
I will want to walk side by side with him till the end.
I will support him when he have any setbacks.
I will be happy even if I'm just seeing him from afar and he is doing great.
I will not ever ever want to hurt him again.
I will want to be there for him at his lowest.
I will make sure he is truly happy when he is with me.
11:43 pm
