Saturday, January 26, 2008
skimmed through The Complete Idiot's Guide To: Friendship for Teens. despite it being a good 5-6 years old, it's still crisp and brand-new. serious. even the pages are white. but anyway, i gues that book will be great for people. cos there they list down what are the basic foundations of a friendship (which everyone will need to have), crimes against friendship, when to break off a friendship. to quote the book, 1) screwing up once is often forgivable; twice is dubious. 2) If your "friend" really doesn't care, neither should you. i feel like wrapping up a copy of the book and present it as a gift to people who need it although they don't realise it.
to quote umai (sorry ehk..hehe..) : aku bukan tunggul lah seyyy. (i'm not a piece of dead wood lah seyyy.)
basically in friendship, trust is the most important thing. when you lose trust in people, and they're not doing anything about it, initially it frustrates you. but then you just feel heck care about it. yeah, it hurts. but if your "friend" don't care, neither should you.
baring my emotions doesn't work. sarcasm doesn't work. efforts to talk things around nicely although i feel like just shouting to make my point heard just fall through. i never want to show this side to anyone, but brutal honesty is the way to go. and trust me, when i mean brutal honesty, i mean that i just say whatever i want to say and don't give a damn shit about the other party's reactions, feelings, etc. cos i am beyond the point of being considerate.
ignoring all these sort of people who never fails to piss me off a helluva lot, i am so looking forward to tomorrow.
only 24 hours left to the outing with UMAI! whee!
8:28 pm
