Sunday, September 30, 2007
someone told me that different people cry or get upset over different things; it depends what is their sore point, what hits closer to home. to some people, it's their friends. to some people, it's their family. some materialistic ones would say money. but whatever it is, different people gets affected adversely by different things.
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baked hari raya cookies today. pics will be uploaded asap. vivien, don't jealous worr.. haha..
at the same time, i smsed _. talked to _ about some stuffs. then we sms sms all the way to dunno what time. _ is so funny; can't even spell the name of the player in his favourite club properly, and a bunch of other lame stuffs lah. talking to _ helps most of the time, but then some stuffs i can't outwardly tell _. but the whole thing got cheer me up a lot.
a lot of people's birthday coming up! and i know what to get for most of them already. whee!!
and umai, you are making me get all excited about hari raya!!!
haha.. teruk betul eh aku ni.. baru nak start bikin kuih hari ni, baju raya tu semua belum cari, lampu lap-lip belum pasang lagi ni.. hahaha.. belum beli pun! haha!!
takpelah, lepaskan gian, dengar lagu raya pun set ah!
8:15 pm
i'm supposed to be studying but my concentration span is gone already. and it isn't a very smart thing cos then it'll set me thinking and yeah...
a lot of people's birthdays are coming up, and i was thinking of getting something for them. but i don't usually get or give birthday presents, so it's sort of weird for me to want to do this. but i want to do it.
fyes are coming up very very soon and it's not a very good time to think about or let the whole issue with _ affect me. but sometimes it just can't be helped.
shall rest and go read the live text commentary of the roma-inter match on soccernet now. i don't want to concentrate on the Man Utd game; i just hope they win, even if it's 1-0. hopefully, the roma-inter match can make for some interesting conversation. there's always a high possibility of a red card in an inter milan match, whether it's from inter or from the opposition.
so please inter, entertain me.
12:24 am
Saturday, September 29, 2007
today was fun, cos it's the only exam paper that i really don't mind doing, cos i like! higher malay paper on a saturday, i know, weird right? haha.. this morning i felt like going back to bed after i had my pre-dawn meal, then remembered it was hml exam day, so yeah, dragged my somnabulistic self to school. Paper 1 was super fun to do, although i think i overanalysed until got no time to write conclusion. Paper 2 was luckyy.. the first 2 sections were the exact same questions as my practice papers and the common test, i think.
then in between the 2 papers, went to meet samantha outside the avt cos she was waiting for chem to start. then we went up to class and down again and then we just hung around outside there cos got nothing to do. then debbie came and she was relating to us how she chiong-ed all the way to school, then ljw still wasn't there yet cos he still hasn't come.
what else? nothing much lah. morning was just do paper, then i was happy cos it was a happy paper. although i took a 5 min nap somewhere in the middle of the paper. but i still finished 35 minutes before time. haha. whee!! then after that smsed samantha. she got lost on her way to tuition! then we sms sms, then she so funny, make me laugh in the train. haha!
i shall go shower, study a bit of SS, prepare to break fast, study again and then i shall blog again!
and i want to challenge vivien's donut pics:

had these to break fast yesterday. haha. i ate the oreo, the cocoa crispy and the chocolatey one. then i shared the strawberry jam with my dad. see? only 6. got proof viv eats more then me :p
i feel like smsing you, but i dont think now's the right time.
5:14 pm
Friday, September 28, 2007
quick one today, cos i still have yet to learn my peribahasa for tomorrow's higher malay exam.
my mood today was severely down. i cried so many times in school today that my eyes were starting to hurt during bio lesson, and then i couldn't focus on whatever Snr. Ms Lim was saying. then my mood sort of perked up a bit towards the end of the school day.
someone told me before, "sometimes to open the lock, you need the person who locked it."
i think i may have understood what that chinese saying meant today.
thank you for making me smile again although i cried because of you.
10:10 pm
Thursday, September 27, 2007
school wasn't much. my morning wasn't that great cos discovered man utd's humiliating exit from the Milk - ok ok, Carling - Cup. then it rained on the way to school, and i thought i saw someone familiar at redhill mrt, but i guess it was just the morning and the rain and the uninspiring football news.
took some time off during bio to jot down in my diary. it lasted me all the way to the first half of recess. i had to have some solitude in the bathroom, and after i was tired, i came back and finished off my entry. then.. yeah.. i opted not to talk much cos it wouldn't be very nice to betray my emotions.
reached home to find it empty. took that time to just sit in one corner of my room and.. yeah, you get the picture. now my eyes hurt, i'm tired and i'm trying to do a maths to get my mind off it.
5:30 pm
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
opted to go for chem instead of french just now. then while the rest of the girls were busy doing their TYS, samantha and i just sort of.. err.. slacked a lot a lot cos we've done all the questions wayy beforehand. so in a way, we just sat down there and whiled away 2 hours of our time. but hey, we managed to clear some misconceptions along the way.
just finished studying the first chapter of SS. i've finally touched and read through one of my humans books. there's still history to start, though.
i had a pleasant surprise when i got home: my mum had bought 3 orchids and 2 rose plants! the orchids were beautiful, really. one's deep purple, one's a combination of purple and pink and the other one is a combo of pink and white. and although the rose hasn't blossomed yet, i'm guessing it to be one red rose plant and one white rose plant. i'm not an advocate of orchids, since they're scentless. so i guess you can tell that i'm excited about the roses, because my mum bought my favourite flowers!! usually i'd prefer white roses because i think white roses symbolises a thousand different things: purity, sincerity, selflessness, sacredness, elegance etc. but red roses are fine by me as well, i guess, because red roses always seem to be more meaningful to the majority.
then i heard one of the songs in Moulin Rouge. i only remembered about the song when i saw this written on the whiteboard in the malay classroom when i went there for lessons yesterday:
Listen to my heart, can you hear it sing
Telling me to give you everything
Seasons may change, winter to spring
But I Love You, until the end of time
Come what may
Come what may
I will love you
Until my dying day
~ Come What May by Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor
and i am just so glad that although i had a dreaded feeling since last night, and came to school with the same dreaded feeling in the morning, nothing bad happened. i am just so thankful to Allah. i don't know what i'd do if my dreaded feeling came true.
Alhamdulillah ya Allah kerana Engkau telah melindunginya.Roses. Come What May. Relief.
9:49 pm
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
to sound a bit more normal, i am somewhat anxious by the fact that i haven't touched my humanities subjects at all save for geog's plate techtonics, which i didn't have much problem with since (please don't hit me) i love the chapter. but at least there's positive progress in the other subjects. totally bogged my brain with numbers and numbers and whatever that has to do with numbers for most part of today. but anyway, hoping to clear my subjects by the time the papers come because i always never seem to be able to finish revising nowadays.
and oh, make-up tutorial vids are great de-stressors, as long as you can control yourself. most of the time i can do that. sometimes i'll just be itching to pick up a brush and my eyeshadow colours and play with make-up. yes, even at 12am plus.
on a more weird front (as weird as the Nazis goose-walk march), i guess i'd better rein in my emotions. for some reason, i just felt like crying in school just now during english period. but hurried to the toilet and controlled it. but i wasn't crapping around or being cynical anymore after that. then when i reached home, i entered my room and saw my class photo on the floor. i don't know how fell from my desk; maybe the wind blew it or something (i'm trying to understand how since i placed about 3 watches on top of it). and suddenly through the night, i don't know.. i just had a very anxious, uncomfortable feeling. we malays would put it as "rasa tak sedap hati". even now there's a tinge of it, but i'm half-awake so maybe that plays a part.
i am dead beat from everything.
ya Allah, lindungilah dia..
11:37 pm
Monday, September 24, 2007
to phrase my emotions simply, i am just plain happy to tears.
maybe it doesn't account for much, but after so long..
heard this happy song on the radio on the way home (:
Syuga - 8 Hari Seminggu
Aku menyayangimu
Juga aku mencintaimu 8 hari seminggu
Semakin mendekatiku seperti kamu
Pun menemani 25 jam sehari
Selalu begitu bila bercinta tiada habisnya
Sungguh! Sungguh kaulah tempatku berteduh
Saat hati tengah rusuh dan membusuk
Kau beri aku arti maka ku tegar berdiri
Aku menyayangimu
Juga aku mencintaimu 8 hari seminggu
Semakin mendekatiku seperti kamu
Pun menemani 25 jam sehari
Habislah kita dianyam perasaan enggan berpisah
Sungguh! Sungguh kaulah tempatku berteduh
Saat hati tengah rusuh dan membusuk
Kau beri aku arti maka ku tegar berdiri
Menggilaimu setengah mati
Tanpa ku ragu bahwa kaulah pilihan jitu
Dan aku mau slamanya denganmu
Aku menyayangimu
Juga aku mencintaimu 8 hari seminggu
Semakin mendekatiku seperti kamu
Pun menemani 25 jam sehari
Aku menyayangimu
Juga aku mencintaimu 8 hari seminggu
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translation: 8 days a weeki care for you
just like i love you, 8 days a week
as we get closer you
accompany me 25 hours a day
it's always like that cos love has no end
truly, you're my shelter
when my heart is anxious
you gave me a reason to carry on
i care for you
just like i love you, 8 days a week
as we get closer you
accompany me 25 hours a day
we're caught up with the unwillingness to part
truly, you're my shelter
when my heart is anxious
you gave me a reason to carry on
crazy for you to death
without doubt you're the one
and i wanna be with you forever
i care for you
just like i love you, 8 days a week
as we get closer you
accompany me 25 hours a day
i care for you
just like i love you, 8 days a week
to whoever that had felt the stab of the words in my previous posts, i'm really, really sorry ):
8:18 pm
Sunday, September 23, 2007
having dao-ed people the last few days, guess it's time for a quick reflection.
you know the feeling where you feel, "i'm there for them, but they're not there for me."
it hurts and pisses you off at the same time. so naturally you don't want to lash out at them, so you opted to dao them. now, this isn't a good idea.
but then, it sort of made me recollect this phrase (i've mentioned it in the 2nd previous post):
sometimes it's not a question of how friend they are to you, but how friend
you are to them.
the owner of these words sort of shook me up and comforted me with the words. it's true, i guess. to quote the person, friends just let it go. don't expect things from people. in other words, selflessness.
then there's the question of how selfless you can get. and again, the answer is, don't question, just do it. sure, there'll be instances where you feel that you're too selfless for your own comfort. but then again, what can you do about it?
nice to know that when you're throwing sarcasm at others, you don't get the sarcasm obviously aimed at you.
4:21 pm
smokey look EOTD.
pictures after the jump.
with flash:


no flash:



used: silkygirl foundation in natural (base)
lancome palette's white eyeshadow (base)
silkygirl smokey spark - dark grey on crease, upper eyelid
- silver on browbone
lancome palette's dark brown eyeshadow (on outer v , crease, half of lower lid)
silkygirl auto eyeliner in black brown (line waterline)
maybelline unstoppable mascara (lengthening)
estee lauder's magnascopic mascara (volumising)
4:21 pm
Saturday, September 22, 2007
sometimes it's not a matter of how friend they are to you, but how friend you are to them.
even after a month plus, those words seem to stick in my head.
had e maths and a maths extra lessons all the way to 12pm. both lessons were ok, i guess. came in late cos i don't know where the lesson is held. but whatever. sat with yeewen and nita. yeewen is so funny. haha. suddenly i recalled yesterday's history lecture. i sat next to teran, and we spent about a quarter of the time laughing at Hitler and the Nazis (no offence here).
had to keep stopping myself from crying in the train all the way from redhill to woodlands. it was rather unsuccessful cos it was pretty obvious i'm holding back the tears. and the fact that i nearly missed my stop.
when you really, really need the people around you, somehow you feel as if they just desert you.thanks for nothing.
9:07 pm
I can't take part in the business man illusion,
I'll take my chance in the real world confusion
Don't blame us, who do we trust when they're so dishonest
No patience, this nation's obsessed with exploitation
Lying, denying surrounds me
All I know is I've heard this all before
Reality's a bore (is a bore)
You ask me to believe in something fake,
well I can't bring myself to do what
You want me to (want me to)
This is who we are and (who we are)
Nothing's gonna change
Thanks for nothing (I've heard this all before),
Thanks for nothing (reality's a bore),
Thanks for nothing (it'll never be the same),
Thanks for nothing (and nothing's gonna change)
~ Thanks For Nothing by Sum 41
12:03 pm
come to think of it, i think i may have been practising isolationism for the past few days. in case you don't take history, isolationism was a practice used by the US post-WWI where they decide to stay out of people's affairs and, well, basically isolate themselves from whatever raging conflict there is. it was more of a defensive stand towards the world.
ok, fine, maybe i did practice isolationism. but sometimes it's not because you want to; it's because the people around you are causing you to do it. so if some people happen to feel like i'm isolating them, yeah well, maybe i am, maybe i'm not. whatever your views is, reflect cos i'm not gonna waste blogspace on this matter. come to think of it, i don't quite care.
anyway, i guess isolationism sort of allowed me to take a step back and scrutinize the people around me. sometimes you think you know the people in your life, but you don't exactly. so by viewing them as a 3rd party and not as someone who knows them, you get better judgement about them.
i guess the main thing is that i don't have much to say to the people around me. or there's not really a chance for me to talk out. but whatever.
am i sounding cynical? perhaps. do i sound mean cos i'm doing it to the people around me? maybe. am i very cold to the people around me? to a certain extent.
it's the end of my isolationism for now. but thank you History for teaching me the concept.
11:23 am
Friday, September 21, 2007
i am not dao-ing people today. i just don't feel like talking, and i have nothing to talk about. so unless there's something to talk about, i opted to just remain silent. which was ok, since people tend to leave me on my own and i get my own space.
i really feel like going to that mini park beside the canal near my school. it's rather deserted, but that's fine by me. maybe i'll head out there tomorrow.
ya allah, mengapa begitu sakit hati ini menahan tangisan daripada merembes keluar? di bulan yang suci ini ku cuba untuk menahan air mata ini semasa berpuasa. tapi apabila aku terus-menerus menahannya, semakin perih. ya allah, masanya kian dekat. berikanlah ku kekuatan dan ketabahan untuk mengharungi hari-hari berikutnya.ku sangat sangat memerlukanmu.. tapi kau tiada..
12:13 pm
Thursday, September 20, 2007
sheesh. not everything is about _, you know.today was a pretty decent day by any standards, save for the e maths test result (i blanked out during the paper. oh wells.) what else? had hml listening compre, half-dozing off during the second reading. nothing much, i guess. if i state what i ate for my breaking fast today, you'll be slightly surprised, cos i was amused that i could eat that much: 1 thosai, 1 burger, some nuggets and french fries, rambutan cocktail, vadai, sunquick drink, sips of coffee. and all these have entered my stomach and awaiting digestion within a matter of 30 minutes. did my tarawih prayers at night, then now trying to study bio. may proceed to some other random subjects later.
sometimes i feel _ can really understand me quite well. it's like i don't have to tell the whole thing, or i'm halfway relating stuffs, and somehow, _ sort of completed the story for me, talked me round, give me the morale boost when i need it the most. but then the whole issue is rather complex, and although _ said that he'll be there if i need him.. there's only how far you can keep on turning to someone, because you can't keep on turning to the person all the time; they lead their own lives as well.tapi dia mengenaliku, perwatakanku, sifatku. sudah beberapa kali aku curhat kepadanya. dan dia mengerti dan memahami erti segalanya. dia tak pernah jenuh talk me round. saat-saat seperti ini, aku terasa seperti aku ingin pergi kepadanya dan curhat segala-galanya kepadanya. tapi dia tiada. tatkala dia pulang, aku tak sampai hati untuk membebankannya dengan curahan hatiku. tapi saat-saat beginilah aku berasa bahawa aku inginkan dia di sisi. tidak perlu berkata apa-apa. setakat kehadirannya barangkali sudah mencukupi.
12:03 pm
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
ku ingat ku dapat bertahan tanpa kehadiranmu. tapi nampaknya aku separuh berjaya, separuh gagal. meskipun aku mampu menjalani kehidupanku seperti biasa, aku mampu tersenyum, ketawa, buat lawak, melaksanakan tugasan-tugasanku, acap kali kau selalu di ingatan.
aku terkenang wajahmu, senyumanmu, saat-saat manis yang pernah ku lalui bersamamu. ku terkenang suaramu, mengungkapkan kata-kata yang dapat menenangkanku dan membuatku berfikir tentang perkara-perkara di dalam hidupku. pada masa yang sama aku juga teringatkan kau dengannya. entah berapa kali aku pernah lihat kau bersama dengannya. aku tak dapat nafikan, sedikit terguris hati ini - tapi aku merelakannya kerana aku ingin melihat kau bahagia, tidak kira dengan siapa.
aku tetap menanti kepulanganmu, kerana aku masih menyayangimu meskipun aku telah cuba untuk melupakanmu.
12:03 am
rushed semi-smokey purple EOTD. just slapped on some colours at home after school today - in fact, don't quite know their exact names- and yeah, all done in a good 5 minutes.


so as you can see, no foundation or powder or whatever. just a purple eyeshadow set from Estee Lauder, a black-brown from a Lancome palette, and Estee Lauder MagnaScopic mascara (which volumises my lashes, but i forgot to put on my Unstoppable before it to lengthen.. darn..)
and i shall repeat: this is a rushed eotd, so obviously it's less than perfect. it was just, slap on the purple eyeshadows blindly and then just taking a swipe of the brown one and do it in random motions on the outer-V, blend it all out with some pink, swiggle the mascara on the top and bottom lashes (without curling, and that's not smart cos this mascara is heavy fluid and there'll be this extra lash sticking downwards and unable to lift itself up.. poor fella.. felt like plucking it) and i just realised - i didn't use a liner. see? that's why i said, rushed.
12:03 am
Monday, September 17, 2007
to debbie: thanks for the "secrets". haha, i was so tempted to go and try them all out. all the colours were so nicee. haha. and also thanks for the M2M song. <33
but i guess this song reflects my mood now. it's called Disini Untukmu (Here for you) by
Ungu. (yes, as you can tell, currently they're my favourite indonesian band. and yes, ungu means purple.)
Disini Untukmu oleh Unguseandainya kau tahu
betapa ku sangat inginkan dirimu
seandainya kau tahu
apa yang ada di dalam isi hatiku
akankah bisa kunyatakan
rasa cinta dalam hatiku
dan aku tak bisa kukatakan
bahwa kaulah yang terindah
untukku
masih disini menantimuberharap kau akan memikirkankumasih disini menunggumumenanti jawaban atas cintakumasih disini menantimuberharap cinta kita kan bersatumasih disini menunggumu menanti dirimu kembali___________________________
(translation for chorus - highlighted part)
i'm still here waiting for you
hoping that you'll think of me
i'm still here waiting for you
waiting for a reply to my love
i'm still here waiting for you
hoping that our love will unite
i'm still here waiting for you
waiting for you to come back
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i was watching one of the indonesian drama serials (Coklat Strawberi - Chocolate Strawberry) when i heard this as the OST. and then i discovered it's in their latest album. and it's super nice!
11:23 pm
Sunday, September 16, 2007
after my tarawih prayers tonight, i felt a sense of serenity that i haven't felt for quite some time. alhamdulillah ya Allah...
(mild explanation: tarawih is a special type of prayers we Muslims do during the fasting month, and it's done after the last compulsory prayer of the day which is at night around 8.30pm. usually we do it en masse, but some people like me prefer to do it alone although en masse is supposedly better. but whatever the case, it's our intentions, i.e. to pray, that matters the most.)
found a pretty amusing email in my inbox today when i logged in after tarawih.
it made me smile.
terubat sedikit rinduku padanya... syukur alhamdulillah ya Allah..
watched the launching of Ungu's new Islamic album "Para PencariMu" cum their mini concert on indonesian channel sctv yesterday, and i totally loved their new songs. Ungu is an indonesian band that plays and releases typical indo-pop-rock music most of the time, but releases an Islamic album during or nearing the fasting month, so i think that's pretty unique cos it's the first time i hear pop-rock being used for Islamic-based songs.
here's one of my favourite tracks, Sesungguhnya.